I had my big love moment when i was at work. When I got my job I was told to hide my sexuality as it would cause me to be bullied...so I did... I walked into work one day after three years of "hiding" who i was, and remaining single and lonely to keep my job, when I met my now wife. She was so damn HOT! This woman in a suit, high heels, blonde hair and green eyes was stading in my office talking to some of the managers. I put my head down and kept walking. Blushing as I walked past. I put her out of my mind because after three years of employment....it really wasn't a friendly place. It was the work I was able to achieve with children is why I stayed.

Anyway this vision of beauty ended up being the new Acting manager of one the teams in my office. I ended up having to work with her a few times and I swear black and blue she said she had a husband....she denies this...lol. One day I seen her check me out...."what was that" I thought to myself. I soon found out I was totally wrong. She had an EX-girlfriend! "EX"!!!! I thought " shit, I may have a chance here". I asked her out for a drink...I don't drink and later found out she didn't either....but I chickend out of the "catch up"...she rescheduled and made it so I couldn't back out. I fell head over her glossy red heels in love!

I wish that was the happy ending but not yet....we fell in BIG LOVE then had to tell the director so we could be open with our relationship and not hide. She was surprisingly amazing about it all and almost threw herself out the door to buy a rainbow flag...we thought...well, this may not be as bad as we thought....well, we thought too soon.

The following days, weeks and months I was bullied SO bad, My Sarah got a permanent position in the office and moved to be with me. Previous to coming out with my Sarah to those in the office, I was popular. After we came out as a couple, everything changed. I was called names, given ridiculous duties, berated I front of my peers and one day..I was locked in an office...Sarah was my ROCK! Nobody once bullied her, I was seen as the weaker one. She helped me keep a diary of everything and lifted me high everyday just with one "hows it going?" Email.

I ended up having to go on workers comp and have psychotherapy for years after from being locked in an office amongst all the other things. We soon moved and got new jobs!Now...we live happily together in Canberra!! AND we're married AND we have two beautiful dogs. It's been almost 8 years now and we are still both MADLY in love.

Writing this has been actually really good...even if mine and Sarahs Big Love doesn't win, thank you Mini for thinking up the competition. I'm going to kiss my wife now. Thanks again guys. Xo